WHEN LIFE IMITATES ART by Victoria Vane

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On January 21, 2015, I emailed my editor at Kensington my final revisions on HELL ON HEELS, the first book in a smart and sexy Las Vegas set series called HOTEL RODEO (more about this series later). In my story the heroine’s life is turned upside down when her father suffers a debilitating stroke. Having worked in advanced diagnostic medical imaging for sixteen years (CT and MRI), I thought I understood a great deal about this subject. I knew all about the various diagnostic tests, and had a solid understanding of the stroke timetables and treatment options. I could also comprehend the clinical jargon and interpret most of the doctor-speak, but I had no personal experience with stroke. I had no idea how devastating this condition is for both the patient and family. In writing this story, I never could have imagined this same thing happening in my own life.

It was eight o’clock on a Friday night when my husband got a call that his Dad was in intensive care after suffering a severe stroke. Within thirty minutes of receiving the news, our entire family including the dog, was packed up and on the road south to Florida. It’s a sad irony that, like my heroine, I have not been home since.

CT Scan
This was my world for sixteen years before I began writing.

Since that horrific phone call six weeks ago, and four more ‘neurolgical events’, I have learned that I knew absolutely nothing about the realities of stroke. During this time I have witnessed first hand, the devastation this condition has wrought on an otherwise healthy and completely independent man, and it’s been heartbreaking. It’s also been an emotionally draining roller coaster ride for all of us as his only family. I sincerely thank all who have offered your kind and encouraging words and prayers during this difficult time.

We are fortunate to have the benefit of top notch rehabilitation specialists, people who have not just the clinical knowledge but true compassion and sensitivity. We have a long way to go on the path to recovery, but I am amazed by both the human body’s incredible capability to heal itself as well as this man’s indomitable spirit as he endeavors to teach his body parts how to function again.

I pray that time and hard work will eventually bring healing and that soon he’ll be able to reclaim his life. In the meantime, we can only take each day as it comes and hope for the best.

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Victoria Vane
Award-Winning Romance Novelist
VICTORIA VANE is an award-winning author of smart and sexy romance with works ranging from wild comedic romps to emotionally compelling erotic romance. Her books have received more than twenty awards and nominations to include the 2014 RONE Award for Treacherous Temptations and Library Journal Best E-Book romance of 2012 for The Devil DeVere series. She lives the beautiful upstate of South Carolina with her husband, two sons, a little black dog, and an Arabian horse.
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VICTORIA VANE is an award-winning author of smart and sexy romance with works ranging from wild comedic romps to emotionally compelling erotic romance. Her books have received more than twenty awards and nominations to include the 2014 RONE Award for Treacherous Temptations and Library Journal Best E-Book romance of 2012 for The Devil DeVere series. She lives the beautiful upstate of South Carolina with her husband, two sons, a little black dog, and an Arabian horse.

19 Responses

  1. Thinking of you and your family, Victoria, and hoping for the best for your father-in-law.

  2. As many folks say, books are healers to the soul, for you’ll never know how close a story will get to a person. These are what makes a great story believable, even at the cost of personal first hand experience. Hang in there.

    • I agree that everything happens for a reason Ki Pha. This experience has definitely brought my family closer. Thanks for the kinds words. XO Victoria

  3. Maggi Andersen

    He appears to be a fighter with is so important in recovery. I hope there are good times ahead for you all.

    • Hi Maggi! He definitely is but about a week ago I was afraid he’d lost it but now that my boys are here on Spring break, he seems to want to do it for them. This has been a very good week so far. I hope it continues without further set backs.

  4. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You’re a good DIL, Victoria, and he seems to be a real fighter – there’s always hope.

  5. I know that you have been a godsend to your inlaws with your intellectual knowledge, too. You are in my prayers, my friend.

  6. Alyssa Alexander

    Many healing wishes are being sent your father-in-law’s way. He sounds like a fighter!

  7. allybroadfield

    Lots of hugs and positive energy coming to all of you, Vicki.

  8. ginaconkle2013

    Big hug to you Vicki! You have a tender heart, and your grace and love to your father-in-law is huge. Looking forward to seeing you at RT where you can get a nice break.

  9. Ah, honey, sending you huge hugs. Hang in there.

  10. Hang in there Victoria–you’re a blessing to your family.

  11. Wishing the best for his recovery.
    Denise

  12. Your father in law sounds like a tough man (just like his daughter in law)