Hi, it’s Jessica here. If you like me on Facebook, you may already know that I’m in the middle of building a home. When I told my good friend Gina Conkle (if you don’t already know her, look her up, read all her books) that I was building and not buying, she asked if I’d looked into couple’s therapy. At the time, I thought that it wasn’t necessary – I’d been waiting to build my own home for years. Surely, this would be a wonderful experience that would only bring me closer to my husband.
Fast forward 10 months later, and there I am – sobbing. Alone. In the parking lot at Costco. They keep telling me that it’s “normal.” “It’s all part of the building process,” they say. The latest tragedy that sent me over the edge – they installed the wrong tile for the backsplash in the kitchen. I should have known at the beginning when we discovered the plumbers were using the plans for the wrong house…
But, I’m an optimist. I see the wine bottle half full, not half empty. Besides, even if the bottle was half empty, there’s a liquor store right next door to my temporary housing. So, even though I’m stressed, I consider myself blessed. Things could be much worse. To put it all in perspective, let’s look at some significant building issues through history.
- 1911 – The Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire happened in Manhattan, New York City. It was a huge industrial disaster that drew attention to workers’ safety at a time that there’d been blatant disregard. The fire caused almost 150 deaths, primarily women.
- Around 27 AD- a Fidenae amphitheater built by a citizen named Atilius collapsed. The amphitheater was made of wood and the sources I referenced spoke of a death toll around 20,000. This disaster resulted in implementing a process for inspection by the government…and a banishment for Atilius.
- 1850 – The Angers Bridge (a suspension bridge) in France collapsed during a storm.. There’d been a battalion of soldiers marching across when it collapsed which resulted in over 200 deaths. The bridge collapse was blamed on rust and further compromised by the soldiers’ marching creating an additional vibration, compromising the integrity of the structure.
- 1973 – The Broadway Central Hotel in New York City collapsed after what could is suspected to be additions to a basement bearing wall. This collapse resulted in the death of four, with many others injured.